Forgiveness and Moving Forward: A Path to Healing

Lincoln advocate for forgivness

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful and challenging acts of the human spirit. It asks us to release bitterness, let go of hurt, and move forward with grace—even when justice feels unfinished. Yet, forgiveness isn’t about forgetting or excusing the pain; it’s about freeing ourselves from the chains of anger and allowing healing to begin. Scripture calls us to this higher path. In Ephesians 4:32, Paul writes, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

This verse reminds us that our ability to forgive comes from recognizing how much we have been forgiven. Forgiveness is not earned—it’s given. It’s not about who’s right but about choosing mercy over resentment. Another powerful reminder comes from Colossians 3:13: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” This verse speaks directly to the struggle of daily life—where offenses, misunderstandings, and disappointments are unavoidable. Still, we are called to meet them with grace, knowing that forgiveness is not a single act but often a lifelong posture.

History, too, offers voices that echo this call. In his Second Inaugural Address, delivered near the end of the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln did not speak with triumph or vengeance, though the Union stood victorious. Instead, he called for healing: “With malice toward none; with charity for all… let us strive on to finish the work we are in; to bind up the nation’s wounds.” Lincoln understood that for a divided country to move forward, forgiveness was essential. Not as a dismissal of wrongs, but as a deliberate choice to seek peace over retribution.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean justice is ignored. It means we choose to stop letting the past poison our future. It’s not always immediate. Sometimes, it’s a daily decision. But each time we forgive, we chip away at bitterness and make room for love to grow again.

Moving forward doesn’t erase the past—it honors it by learning from it. Whether in our relationships, communities, or our own hearts, choosing forgiveness allows new beginnings to take root. It’s not easy. But as Christ showed us, it’s the way to true freedom.

In a world often eager for revenge, may we be people of mercy. May we remember the strength it takes to forgive and the peace that follows when we do.